The scene where Lillian tells Annie she is engaged and wants Annie to be her Maid of Honor perfectly embodies how that particular scenario often plays out in real life. You see Lillian's excitement as she begins to tell Annie Doug's proposal, and Annie begins to have an onslaught of anxiety. Her life has begun to fall apart, she's broke, and now her best friend is getting married. I had a similar reaction when I was asked to be a Maid of Honor, I am not a fan of weddings, and I felt pressure to play this particular role because I love my friend. When women are asked to be in weddings, they usually say yes, then become frustrated with the responsibilities that come with their commitment. According to easyweddings.com , " Some brides will have many events and activities leading up to their wedding day and, often, the bridesmaids will put in money here or there for particular things. For example, the bride may have an engagement party, a bridal shower an